Out of the blue...

So I'm at the office doing some work, checking e-mail, and friendster...Ok those two activities don't really count as "work"....

*ahem*

So I'm at the office keeping my self busy when I get a message from a person I thought I'd never hear from again. She was a major part of my life in college, I totally adored her, and even though we were never officially "together", in the end she unofficially dumped me. It was a hard time for me. I was hurt and she said she had her reasons. I found out later she got married with her Ex. And now has two kids.

what does one do when someone one had "history" with calls? Does one act all normal like nothing happened? Avoid getting into details and just keep the conversation light? Or just totally avoid communication at all cost?

sure there's that "we can still be friends" stuff. But she's married with kids, and I'm getting engaged. It would all just get awkward. And as a muslim it aint right for me to keep in touch with someone's wife, especially since the husband doesn't like me cause he considers me a treat. JERK!!

*laughs*